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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Thanksgiving Update (Link to New Blog Click Here)

Little did I know that as I wrote the last post about my lifestyle change, it was about that change more than I knew! I got pregnant right around that time if not that day! So that put a lot of things into perspective for me! And put Tony and I on a whole other path in our lives, one that we wanted and were trying for, but one that hadn't expected so soon to be honest.

We didn't think we would be able to conceive as quickly as we did. In October I monitored my cycle and boom it happened! Unfortunately at 8 weeks it was determined the pregnancy was abnormal and the embryo was not viable so as of today I am no longer pregnant.

I started another blog - The Story of Baby Davis - the link is above under the title. It was started to chronicle the journey of us becoming a family and I intend to keep it up, so for more on that topic you can check that blog out - I will also add it into my blog list from this blog so you can link to it from here as well.

So this Thanksgiving is a sad one, but one that is making me realize I am thankful for my husband and for my extensive family and friends. The people who are supporting us through this difficult time.

We will still maintian this blog and that one will be solely dedicated to that topic, this one is where you can find the usual updates about our ongoing life.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Lifestyle change

I know I have been lacking in my updates on the blog, so I am going to try to do better and now I will have something continuing to blog about....

This year has blown by and for some reason I have had a lot of self reflection, part of getting older I guess! But I know that I haven't been happy with myself for a long time. Not in a drastic way, but in a general way.

So since Tony and I have decided to try to start a family, its about time I get my head straight and get a move on! A month or so ago I started to re-organize our kitchen, to make it more efficient and I have the notion to do that with the rest of the house, but I stalled out as I usually do with home projects. I have the best of intentions but life gets in the way....or so I convince myself.

So I am going to start blogging more about stuff that goes on with us - like I groomed the dogs this week! WOW that was an adventure!!! Now they are clean and groomed and obviously happier...I swear they have the funniest personalities and love to strut their stuff when they get their hair done!!

Anyway, I am embarking on a journey to better myself in every way, to get healthier mentally and physically. I plan to pray a lot, journal a lot, blog a lot and get off my ass more!! I am not sure where I will always find my motivation, but right now its coming from the thought that if I plan on being a mother I have got to get it together!!!

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

San Francisco

Okay, so I'm traveling on business which can be somewhat of an adventure, public transportation and all that...but it's good. There is something about California that just makes me happy, but there is also a lot of other things going on that contribute to that...

It's been a tough year for me in a lot of ways, in the past 12 months my dad died, my sister has been very ill, my marriage had some doubt cast over it, some friendships were tested and my job was taking a lot out of me.

All of which distracted me from lots of things...but with patience and prayer it seems things are all falling into place. My sister is on the mend and will hopefully regain most of her health, I am trying to stay in better touch with my friends and family, I got to go on a vacation with my mom that I have wanted to do for years, I feel like I have my career in check and my marriage is stronger than ever!

I feel truly blessed these days, giving credit to the good and bad that comes my way and just trying to keep a reasonable balance!

I feel like in the recent months I have started to gain a new perspective that is more healthy for me and that's amazing - too many people never get that!


Thursday, July 2, 2009

Cali Pics

The pictures (most of them) are on our photo page now - trying to upload to Facebook but had some technical difficulties....use the link on this page to view.


Saturday, June 27, 2009

I'm back!!

I know it's been too long....so let me catch you up. Work has been extremely busy for and I am traveling about one week out of every month. Traveling for business ha it's ups and downs - I don't like being away from home that long but I do get to go places I normally wouldn't like California and Denver.

This weekend Tony and I are in San Diego & LA hanging out with Jermaine before he is deployed for 10 months (he won't be back on land and able to visit home until April). So we are having fun and relaxation in the great So Cal!

AND I have begun making the transition to Vegan although I don't think I will ever be 100%, in my daily diet I am eliminating meat and dairy and trying to have organic as much as possible. But for special occassions I will eat other things.

The vegan lifestyle is a choice I am making for my health and weight loss. I don't feel like I am depriving myself of anything since it is my choice to do this. No one is forcing me and I am not asking anyone to do it with me, not even Tony. This is completely personal.

Additionally our time frame to get pregnant has shifted, so we are not actively trying this summer. I do want to be in better shape but more importantly Tony is not ready. So we will keep you posted on any developments.

I think that's about it for now - everyone stay safe and be happy!!


Monday, May 11, 2009

Mother's Day

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers Tony & I have.... Trecie, Bea, Wilma & Lolly!! We love you!!

We only got to see one of the mothers this weekend, plan to see the others this week....
With Trecie we had brunch at Savannah's, the restaurant in the Augusta Pines Country Club in Tomball. It was nice. Here is a pic of the mom with her kiddos...all the pics are on our picture page.




Friday, April 24, 2009

Bye Bye Bahamas - Highlights

Well today we are coming home ~ right now we are in the airport in Freeport, Grand Bahama waiting for our flight to Ft. Lauderdale. The trip has been a great one. This morning we had one last breakfast at Zorba's on the patio, did a little shopping in the marketplace and then packed it up to head for the airport. As we reflect on the week, these are some of the highlights that made us smile or really laugh....and we hope all the pictures come out!!!

Starting out the trip, as we arrived in the Bahamas, we (Tony) were detained at the airport by Customs. 'Anthony Davis' is on the 'Stop List' in the Bahamas, so they had to clear him, in their own island time....of course he was cleared, but I couldn't help but think this could be one of those nightmare vacations where everything goes wrong!! But we were on our way within the hour.

Another weird occurrence was on Wednesday afternoon, when we returned to our room the key card did not work. So we went down to the front desk and were informed that our room was no longer our room and it had been rented to another guy!! According to the hotel computer, we were moved to another room that day and he was now in our room!! In the midst of her getting new keys and calling security to come escort us to 'our room', a guy came up who had just been robbed and needed to borrow the hotel phone to cancel his credit cards. They had already called the police and security - they had a first floor room and two guys came in the patio door, took what they could, and ran down the beach. Since that was obviously more important than our room key mixup, they let us go up with the new keys and all was well.
This is why we always lock all our doors and put anything of value in the safe in our room. You can't be too careful, especially traveling abroad. The resort has beach access so anyone can get on the property if they want to.

Our only real brush with the law/military (like we needed one at all) was on our way to Fish Fry on Wednesday night. Neka picked us up, Kelsey was already with her. As we were heading down the road toward the beach, there were all kinds of police standing in the street stopping all the cars!! Some kind of roadblock. They told Neka to pull over to the side, we had no idea why at the time. It got a little scary when they were shining flashlights into the windows and made everyone get out of the car!! Turns out that Neka did not have her front license plate mounted on the car. She had just gotten it renewed and not put on yet, which is against the law in the Bahamas. So they let her go with a warning, and then another cop make Kelsey open the glove box as he was getting back in the car.
So after getting past the roadblock, we were cruising the strip in Smith Point to find a parking spot and we pass a group of people, men and women, big and small, that are all dressed in black or camo and who all have machine guns!!! One big guy had his hanging around his neck!! They were drug enforcement officers who patrol out there during Fish Fry. Whoa - at that point we were hoping the night would not become dangerous.

Some of the BEST moments ...
Meeting and befriending Neka and Kelsey. They are really great people who showed us a great time. Kelsey is a young guy, working two jobs and going to culinary school. He's a little shy, but super nice. He has what he calls an 'iClone' because its a knockoff iPhone! All the apps are in Chinese! LOL

Robyn riding a scooter for the first time and making Tony very proud. After overcoming my fear, I really enjoyed it! The cool air rushing against you as you drive around a beautifully lush island discovering all sorts of special places!! Top speed was just over 60 kms which is about 37 mph. Not only a personal triumph, but the easy mobility allowed us to explore more of the area than we would have otherwise. And we took the map and found our own way, so we saw more than what any tour would show you. Like our little secret beach!!

Fish Fry was awesome - just drinking and dancing with everyone, locals and tourists, just having a good time. Neka has grown up here so she knows everyone and had a story to tell about anyone we asked about. The island is only so big, so everyone knows everyone!!
Robyn got called out by the emcee at the second bar/street/parking lot we made our way to. A white girl that can dance!! Yep, that gets attention down here - they see so many tourists that go crazy, but it's rare to see a white girl with rhythm!!!

We saw 'Michael Jackson' (a young, tall guy who really likes to dance) a few times. He was around in the square by Corner Bar in the marketplace on Tuesday night. Neka pointed him out and told us who he was. We also saw him a couple of times at Fish Fry. He was at the first bar and was down the street where we migrated later. The first bar was full of tourists and locals, the second was strictly locals (except for us) and it was a lot more fun, but not as much people watching. The first bar was entertainment, the second was the real party! So I got a picture with the emcee when he was walking around the crowd later. I also wanted to get a picture with 'MJ' so as Neka and I went to the area where he was dancing, I jumped down off the curb (about 12" - 18") and of course fell! In front on everyone, after they all knew I was the dancing white girl!!! Yep, can't have a vacation without one of my clumsy moments!! And this was a good one. As Tony and Kelsey looked on, I fell to my knees, scraping my right one pretty good and my left hand trying to catch myself...but the previously ingested alcohol allowed me to ignore the pain, pop up, and take the picture!! Hope that one comes out - I really worked for it!! LOL

Grand Bahama Day 4

Ahhhh, today was wonderful. We slept in and had a liesurely breakfast - we have found that Zorba's (Greek Restaurant) is our favorite in the marketplace. We bought a couple of beach towels from the marketplace, got sandwich stuff and some fruit for our picnic. About 2pm we rented scooters again and went to Mayfield Beach. Our beautiful little secluded beach hideaway!
After learning our way around and getting comfortable on the scooter, it was a quick trip.
You have to check out the pictures...they should be on our site soon.

The beach was awesome, between two jetties and a rock reef, the shore had calm lapping waves. The water was warmer than the pool or ocean at the resort, probably because it is so shallow. It was so clear in an amazing shade of blue/green. We saw another stingray (we saw the first at our resort beach) but it didn't get too close so all was well. After splashing around, we had our picnic and laid on the beach relaxing - I can't say it enough - it was wonderful! We talked about making enough money to move somewhere like that and live a simple life.

As the tide started to come in, we scooted back to the resort by 6. Had a couple of final drinks from Neka in the Corner Bar and went back to the hotel to clean up and pack. Later we had dinner at the Corner Bistro (part of the Corner Bar) and said our goodbyes. Kelsey didn't make it out but from the night before, none of us were surprised!! Tony went to the Casino for a bit and I was able to watch little TV before I fell asleep.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Grand Bahama Day 3

Today was great fun!! We slept in a little, had breakfast in the marketplace and rented scooters for 4 hours. This was scary for me because I am not used to riding anything on two wheels but I tried it and it wasn't that hard - a little scary at first, but after about an hour, I was more used to the leaning and technique.
When I was more comfortable, we went all over the place. We found a little hidden beach called Mayfield Beach. There we met a man who has a 'giant Charlie' (full size/giant black schnauzer) named Rock. He took our picture on the jetty overlooking Mayfield Beach to one side and a marina inlet on the other. It was so beautiful!!
Then we ventured on to Xanadu Beach but bypassed it and ended up at Bahama Princess Beach. Very beautiful and bordered by lots of trees. After going West, we decided to go back East past our resort. We went to Taino Beach, an area called Smith Point. This is the home of the 'Fish Fry'. It is a small beach that has calm little waves. Beautiful during the day!

Neka & Kelsey picked us up from our hotel about 9:30 and we headed for the Fish Fry - which is really a street party the locals have every Wednesday. Some places do fry fish, but most people don't go to eat, they go to drink and dance and watch all the tourists party like it's 1999.
We had a blast!! I danced so much I could hardly move the next morning! I even got called out by the emcee - the white girl that can dance!! We got there a little before 10 and left between 1:30 and 2am! We took a disposable camera, so hopefully the pics will come out and we can share the scene with you all.

Grand Bahama Day 2

We slept really late!! Then just lounged around the room. We hung out at the beach at the resort for a few hours, then headed over to the marketplace for a light dinner. We ended up at the Corner Bar around 7 (after which we planned on going to the Casino). Neka was there and just after we arrived, Kelsey, another bartender who works there on the weekend, showed up to pick up his paycheck. Neka introduced us to him and we all ended up hanging out until they closed (11pm). The bar is on the corner of a small square where a DJ plays dance music, so it is a fun atmosphere and good people watching.

So we had fun drinking new fun stuff and made plans to go to the local 'Fish Fry' the next night. Just getting back to the room and crashing was all we could manage at that point.